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		<title>By: Lessons Learned From a Bad Haircut &#124; Small Business Insurance Finder</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lessons Learned From a Bad Haircut &#124; Small Business Insurance Finder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 06:14:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] still in the middle of a meeting with them? Former venture capitalist and professional coach Jerry Colonna figured out a way to help entrepreneurs break through the &#8220;obsessive rumination, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: pressurized walls nyc</title>
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		<dc:creator>pressurized walls nyc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 23:48:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did you know that according to Wikipedia.. originally, Oreo was mound-shaped and available in two flavors; lemon meringue and cream. In America, they were sold for 25 cents a pound in novelty tin cans with glass tops, which allowed customers to see the cookies.</description>
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		<title>By: Julie P</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie P</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:17:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have kids into that same cartoon.  Great post.  The play-ground theme could have chapter&#039;s like: &quot;Never walk in front of swing jumpers&quot; or &quot;Pick your teams carefully&quot;, or according to my charming 2nd grade boy, &quot;If you kiss a girl you may have to kiss her best friend as well.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have kids into that same cartoon.  Great post.  The play-ground theme could have chapter&#39;s like: &#8220;Never walk in front of swing jumpers&#8221; or &#8220;Pick your teams carefully&#8221;, or according to my charming 2nd grade boy, &#8220;If you kiss a girl you may have to kiss her best friend as well.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Julie P</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie P</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 11:53:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jerry,  perfection is exhausting the do-over keeps us out of paralysis when that fear of failure is GIANT! Thanks again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jerry,  perfection is exhausting the do-over keeps us out of paralysis when that fear of failure is GIANT! Thanks again.</p>
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		<title>By: Lessons Learned From a Bad Haircut- Financial Eyes &#38; Ears</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lessons Learned From a Bad Haircut- Financial Eyes &#38; Ears</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 07:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] still in the middle of a meeting with them? Former venture capitalist and professional coach Jerry Colonna figured out a way to help entrepreneurs break through the &#8220;obsessive rumination, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Tereza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tereza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 21:49:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL.  I get *totally* pissed off when someone tells me I can&#039;t do something.</description>
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		<title>By: jerrycolonna</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerrycolonna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 21:32:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;(or perhaps, the repression strengthened it!)&quot;&lt;br&gt;Me? Motivated by the desire to prove someone wrong? Never!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;(or perhaps, the repression strengthened it!)&#8221;<br />Me? Motivated by the desire to prove someone wrong? Never!</p>
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		<title>By: Tereza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tereza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 21:11:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Coming from a long, established line of lapsed Catholics, I&#039;m allowed to say that one thing they haven&#039;t figured out is that it&#039;s highly unproductive, and often destructive, to repress and bind impulses.   A really bad idea, on so many levels!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Jerry it is to our benefit that your impulse to write survived Sister Mary Benedictine (or perhaps, the repression strengthened it!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Coming from a long, established line of lapsed Catholics, I&#39;m allowed to say that one thing they haven&#39;t figured out is that it&#39;s highly unproductive, and often destructive, to repress and bind impulses.   A really bad idea, on so many levels!</p>
<p>Jerry it is to our benefit that your impulse to write survived Sister Mary Benedictine (or perhaps, the repression strengthened it!)</p>
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		<title>By: Tereza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tereza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 20:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s funny, i did actually write a kinda related post on friday -- lessons learned in my current favorite cartoon (on the &#039;evil plot&#039; meme)  &lt;a href=&quot;http://terezan.tumblr.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://terezan.tumblr.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks to prodding by e-Coach Colonna, i&#039;m really getting into this blogging thing.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You guys should do the playground one, though.  The girls angle is, &quot;Don&#039;t Pull Hair&quot; and &quot;Don&#039;t Double-Cross your Friends&quot;.  A more sinister flavor than you&#039;d want to take the book, I think.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#39;s funny, i did actually write a kinda related post on friday &#8212; lessons learned in my current favorite cartoon (on the &#39;evil plot&#39; meme)  <a href="http://terezan.tumblr.com/" rel="nofollow">http://terezan.tumblr.com/</a></p>
<p>Thanks to prodding by e-Coach Colonna, i&#39;m really getting into this blogging thing.</p>
<p>You guys should do the playground one, though.  The girls angle is, &#8220;Don&#39;t Pull Hair&#8221; and &#8220;Don&#39;t Double-Cross your Friends&#8221;.  A more sinister flavor than you&#39;d want to take the book, I think.</p>
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		<title>By: jerrycolonna</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerrycolonna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 20:25:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like to humor myself and think of Fred Wilson drinking as much caffeine as I do. Yikes.</description>
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		<title>By: fredwilson</title>
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		<dc:creator>fredwilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 17:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>slow down? you&#039;ll have to explain that to me :)</description>
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		<title>By: jerrycolonna</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerrycolonna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 17:17:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm. Good idea for a book.</description>
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		<title>By: jerrycolonna</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerrycolonna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 17:17:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So did I. I actually had nuns who&#039;d rap my knuckles with a ruler because my cursive writing was so illegible. Thank God they didn&#039;t kill the impulse to write...or rather, it was too strong.&lt;br&gt;I&#039;ve found that really well-designed pens help...and noticing that my hand is cramping...that helps too.&lt;br&gt;But the real point isn&#039;t handwriting or not...it&#039;s slowing down and letting the other parts of your brain catch up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So did I. I actually had nuns who&#39;d rap my knuckles with a ruler because my cursive writing was so illegible. Thank God they didn&#39;t kill the impulse to write&#8230;or rather, it was too strong.<br />I&#39;ve found that really well-designed pens help&#8230;and noticing that my hand is cramping&#8230;that helps too.<br />But the real point isn&#39;t handwriting or not&#8230;it&#39;s slowing down and letting the other parts of your brain catch up.</p>
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		<title>By: fredwilson</title>
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		<dc:creator>fredwilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 16:13:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what&#039;s interesting to me about the stick ball parable is that it is a compromise. &quot;ok, we can&#039;t agree, so let&#039;s do it over&quot;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;someone should write a book called &quot;life lessons learned at recess&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what&#39;s interesting to me about the stick ball parable is that it is a compromise. &#8220;ok, we can&#39;t agree, so let&#39;s do it over&#8221;</p>
<p>someone should write a book called &#8220;life lessons learned at recess&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: fredwilson</title>
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		<dc:creator>fredwilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 16:10:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>but what about the few of us that can&#039;t write with a pen?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;the computer was a gift to me because i basically cannot write with a pen. i squeeze so hard on it that my hand cramps within seconds and i can&#039;t write. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;i failed penmanship every year as a kid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>but what about the few of us that can&#39;t write with a pen?</p>
<p>the computer was a gift to me because i basically cannot write with a pen. i squeeze so hard on it that my hand cramps within seconds and i can&#39;t write. </p>
<p>i failed penmanship every year as a kid.</p>
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		<title>By: panterosa</title>
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		<dc:creator>panterosa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 09:27:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Phew, you said it! Feel good?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If only more people connected to their non-verbal selves, pre-verbal selves, post-verbal selves. Dancing is a form where you must learn to leave embarrassment (how you look) and embrace joy (how you feel). Let your body Talk. I&#039;m sure it has a lot to say. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Once upon a time dancing was the great stress buster and social connector. If only more people danced, and people danced more, the world would be far groovier.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Phew, you said it! Feel good?</p>
<p>If only more people connected to their non-verbal selves, pre-verbal selves, post-verbal selves. Dancing is a form where you must learn to leave embarrassment (how you look) and embrace joy (how you feel). Let your body Talk. I&#39;m sure it has a lot to say. </p>
<p>Once upon a time dancing was the great stress buster and social connector. If only more people danced, and people danced more, the world would be far groovier.</p>
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		<title>By: jerrycolonna</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerrycolonna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 01:59:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Isn&#039;t really all about soul expressions? (Or, for the would-be psychologists in the room, the expressions of the subconscious?)&lt;br&gt;Art in all of its forms moves because it connects at the soul/subconscious level.&lt;br&gt;When I dance--and there, I said it, I dance--I use my body to tell a story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isn&#39;t really all about soul expressions? (Or, for the would-be psychologists in the room, the expressions of the subconscious?)<br />Art in all of its forms moves because it connects at the soul/subconscious level.<br />When I dance&#8211;and there, I said it, I dance&#8211;I use my body to tell a story.</p>
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		<title>By: jerrycolonna</title>
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		<dc:creator>jerrycolonna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 01:57:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve a similar problem...I typed faster than I write and I often can&#039;t write as quickly as I think.&lt;br&gt;Which is why handwriting in a journal is perfect for me...it slows me down. I can be facile and that&#039;s not always wise.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;What was really freeing was giving up the notion that someone, someday would read what I was writing in the journal. Then I no longer had to care about penmanship (the bane of my life since second grade).&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Amen, you&#039;re allowed to say kickass and church in the same sentence!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;ve a similar problem&#8230;I typed faster than I write and I often can&#39;t write as quickly as I think.<br />Which is why handwriting in a journal is perfect for me&#8230;it slows me down. I can be facile and that&#39;s not always wise.</p>
<p>What was really freeing was giving up the notion that someone, someday would read what I was writing in the journal. Then I no longer had to care about penmanship (the bane of my life since second grade).</p>
<p>Amen, you&#39;re allowed to say kickass and church in the same sentence!</p>
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		<title>By: stuartstein</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 20:31:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What has struck me from what you&#039;ve said, @jerrycolonna, is that the form of expression is personal.  Back on my initial comment, you mentioned, &quot;Writing (or anything else) that can get the feelings out will help.&quot;  I hadn&#039;t really thought about other expressions people use to help clarify their problems.  While writing is my tool of choice, my cousin is a fantastic graphic designer, and she expresses herself visually.  And while I personally like the feel of the pen when I write, typing flows more easily for some people (especially if they detest their own handwriting!).  @Wavelengths, I think it&#039;s always great to experiment around and see what works best for you.    &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have also been interested to hear about everyone&#039;s personal strategies, so thank you @kareem, @Tereza, and @panterosa for sharing as well!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What has struck me from what you&#39;ve said, @jerrycolonna, is that the form of expression is personal.  Back on my initial comment, you mentioned, &#8220;Writing (or anything else) that can get the feelings out will help.&#8221;  I hadn&#39;t really thought about other expressions people use to help clarify their problems.  While writing is my tool of choice, my cousin is a fantastic graphic designer, and she expresses herself visually.  And while I personally like the feel of the pen when I write, typing flows more easily for some people (especially if they detest their own handwriting!).  @Wavelengths, I think it&#39;s always great to experiment around and see what works best for you.    </p>
<p>I have also been interested to hear about everyone&#39;s personal strategies, so thank you @kareem, @Tereza, and @panterosa for sharing as well!</p>
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		<title>By: Tereza</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tereza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 20:22:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s really interesting how we each channel and express our thoughts differently.  Also because Jerry like you, I started as a journalist.  Probably a few years later, and not for as long.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;My writing really took off when I transitioned to word processing.  My brain works in a highly conceptual chunky kind of way.  So the blank e-sheet where I unleash my stream of consciousness and then link the thoughts together is what makes me feel good.  It&#039;s kind of a lightening-out-of-the-fingertips, sorta vibrational feeling.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have that same feeling when I sing.  After a many year hiatus, I recently joined the kickass choir at my church (am I allowed to say &quot;kickass&quot; and &quot;church&quot; in the same sentence?  Ha!)  I walk away from rehearsal thinking WOW I feel better.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I don&#039;t have that feeling when I write linearly on paper.  My hand can&#039;t keep up with my brain and I&#039;m also not very patient vis-a-vis multiple drafts.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Now all that said -- as a reader, there is nothing so special as handwriting on paper.  I&#039;ve been going thru old letters, recipes, etc from my parents, grandparents and so on.  You can&#039;t beat that tactile, emotional experience.  A whole different level of connection.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#39;s really interesting how we each channel and express our thoughts differently.  Also because Jerry like you, I started as a journalist.  Probably a few years later, and not for as long.</p>
<p>My writing really took off when I transitioned to word processing.  My brain works in a highly conceptual chunky kind of way.  So the blank e-sheet where I unleash my stream of consciousness and then link the thoughts together is what makes me feel good.  It&#39;s kind of a lightening-out-of-the-fingertips, sorta vibrational feeling.</p>
<p>I have that same feeling when I sing.  After a many year hiatus, I recently joined the kickass choir at my church (am I allowed to say &#8220;kickass&#8221; and &#8220;church&#8221; in the same sentence?  Ha!)  I walk away from rehearsal thinking WOW I feel better.</p>
<p>I don&#39;t have that feeling when I write linearly on paper.  My hand can&#39;t keep up with my brain and I&#39;m also not very patient vis-a-vis multiple drafts.  </p>
<p>Now all that said &#8212; as a reader, there is nothing so special as handwriting on paper.  I&#39;ve been going thru old letters, recipes, etc from my parents, grandparents and so on.  You can&#39;t beat that tactile, emotional experience.  A whole different level of connection.</p>
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